What the hell is "monogamish"?!Mar 04, 2021
Monogamy. We've heard of this; I'll bet it's been the norm for most of us.
You know that friend of yours that has threesomes with his girlfriend and other women from time-to-time?
Or that couple that flirts with others shamelessly, but never goes beyond a make-out session?
Or maybe you've been in a LDR (long distance relationship) that operates on a 'don't-ask-don't-tell' basis?
Or maybe you'd enjoy the occasional sex party where you and your partner get to put up a sexy show without ever touching anyone else?
These are just a few examples of what some people may call "monogamish."
The term was first used by Dan Savage to describe a model of relationship often seen between gay male couples: occasional sexual interactions with someone(s) outside your main partner. Savage calls these "occasional infidelities" which are disclosed between partners.
10 years after the words inception, we live in a different world where Tinder profiles clearly state: "28, gemini, pan, poly." And in a world where we acknowledge polyamorous relationships, there leaves room for monogamish.
"I've never had a monogamish relationship. I've always been too 'out there' to be satisfied with only 'a little bit of open'.
But most people are not nearly as nonmonogamous as I am.
Nor are they fully monogamous.
They are somewhere in between.
So the most authentic relationship format for most people would be something in between. Not complete monogamy. But not full-blown polyamory or wild orgies every weekend either.
No research has ever tested this hypothesis.
No one has even dared to propose it." - Dr. Zhana
We defined monogamish. Now what?
(We didn't really define it because guess what? It's whatever YOU want it to be.)
You may be thinking to yourself: "This sounds intriguing! How do I start doing this with my partner?!"
Or you may be thinking: "If my partner ever wanted to do this, I would freak. OUT."
But maybe you just want to learn more about this "in-between" type of relationship, hear different perspectives on the topic, or listen to a few stories from couples who've done this successfully (and some cautionary tales too).
However you feel about this concept, this weird mashup of words that resonates with so many people...
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