Open Smarter Course

Swinging? Polyamory? Monogamish? Don’t-Ask-Don’t-Tell?
Which type of relationship you thrive in or struggle with depends on your personality. Discover your unique self with the Open Smarter Method™, a new, revolutionary science-based approach to optimizing your love life.

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Educational videos

45 engaging videos over 13 cleverly laid-out modules designed to teach you how your unique personality makeup affects your relationship success across the various types of relationship options.

Personality quizzes

15 revealing quizzes determine where you stand on key traits relevant to healthy nonmonogamy (novelty-seeking, jealousy, assertiveness, etc.). The more objectively you assess your personality, the smarter your decisions.

Opportunities for growth

200+ exercises, techniques, and resources you can choose from to focus your energy on making the most worthwhile changes to you personality and relationships—if you’re not happy with where you're at.

Why I created this course

We expect more from our love life today than ever before. Yet every day I see people fail at relationships. Heartbreak, anger, disappointment, frustration, financial ruin... all during an era of unprecedented freedom and opportunities when it comes to sex and relationships. So much of this suffering is because we try to force ourselves into the wrong type of relationships, ones that are incompatible with our personality makeup. It’s like forcing a square peg into a round hole.

Monogamy isn't for everyone, but neither are swinging, polyamory, or Don’t-Ask-Don’t-Tell. I'm tired of seeing people blindly going down wrong relationship paths because of unexamined social norms or intense but irrational emotions.

The Open Smarter Method™ is a scientific, personality-based approach to relationship design, which can help us avoid common pitfalls and make smarter decisions about two of the most important areas of our lives: sex and relationships.